He loves me and i dont feel the same! Advice please!!?

I was in a 4 yr very stressful relationship where my heart was broken when my now ex boyfriend cheated on me and lied to me. We've been broken up 1 month now and I am starting to feel better. Not quite there yet, i'm still healing! Anyway around the time we broke up I met a new guy. We're just friends at the moment, we went on a few dates and I've had a lot of fun with him, he gets my mind off of everything and has made me smile again. I've only known him a month and he has just told me he loves me and has since the first time he met me. This has really upset me, I feel like I shouldn't be but I am! We're not together or anything as we agreed that there'd be no strings attached, meet who we want etc - it was just fun! But the thing is I dont love him at all. I really like him, but no where near love. He's ill at the moment and says he's afraid i'll never talk to him again (he suffers from a tics disorder, not quite Tourettes but something like that, and that really doesn't bug me). I just don't know what to do.. I told him I don't love him and he said he'd love me to be his girlfriend when he feels better, possibly a few months. I really don't want a relationship, not until i'm 100% healed from the last one, but I don't want to hurt him either. I just want to enjoy my single life! Any advice?